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or just truly messed up? am I mean? I went to my therapist the other day and we talked about my perception of other people..I always imagine what they are thinking when I am around.. she tells me that people don't think the things I think they do.. fro example.. I was meeting a bunch of people for the first time.. I quickly imagined them looking me up an down and taking mental note of what I'm wearing, how well I did my makeup, how well I did my hair, my body type, etc. Doesn't everyone for the first time examine the people they are meeting? I know I do.. she says that thats the problem.. well.. I don't know how to stop! It's not like I point out faults.. I just take them in and learn from them.. the point being is if I think those things other people must think them. which just increasingly makes me nervous and more apprehensive around other people.. 

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On August 22nd, 2008 12:58 pm (UTC), alegna13 commented:
not really, some people just don't mind you at all... maybe, you think that way because that's what you do to them. when i meet new people, i dont really pay much attention to their physical appearance coz im more conscious of exhibiting good impression for them... just be urself.. after all, at the end of the day, you are the judge and critic of your self.
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